Showing posts with label youth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label youth. Show all posts

1.12.2014

2 Things Kelvin Doe Teaches Us


I’ve been quiet about my reaction to Kelvin Doe’s successes over the last year. I just wanted to watch his progression without overt praise although always in elation. I knew that watching him was going to be about learning or re-learning a few life lessons. You know the story we all hear about and rarely ever experience? The one about moving from rags to riches or fame,  Oprah’s story, Tyler Perry’s story, in some ways our own Sierra Leonean Sam King’s story and now Kelvin Doe. When I mean moving, I literally mean the JUMP that occurs from absolute obscurity to one of immense international recognition, fame, access to the world’s brilliant minds and financial fulfillment. The story we hear and the one many of us will not experience. How does a young boy dancing on the seams of society come to meet another Sierra Leonean pioneer David Sengeh who has access to the world’s best programs and connections create a catalytic partnership that spins the both of them to super stardom, meaning last time I checked David made Forbes List of 30under 30 brilliant minds to look out for, and Kelvin, well Kelvin Doe attends TEDx Austine with the likes of Chelsey Clinton, gets an interview at CNN and is now MIT’s favorite baby. Ah, the power of intention and its alignment to God’s plan is a power filled concept. As a multi-passionate person, recently just learned this from a friend,  whose passion aligns with being good at many and at times apposing things, I do not focus on being excellent at one thing, I’m everywhere and give  90% at everything with a substantial  focus on being successful, or rather to be precise, imagining what TOMORROW will look like if i continue to work HARD HARD. In turn i do not pay enough attention to today, to the now and here.  See, when you take care of the present, God, a high power,  takes care of the future. This concept/dogma becomes clear with the likes of Kelvin Doe. I highly doubt that when he was being resourceful by gathering scraps to build a generator that he was thinking about how MIT, HARVARD, THE CLINTON's AND the rest of the world would be singing his praises. He was in the moment, doing what was natural and authentic to him, he was taking care of the present and his future was being taken care off by God, the ( UNI) Verse.

Beyond re-learning that lesson with Kelvin Doe’s success, another point become very apparent to me -  the NEED to gestate the multiple talents and even naive concepts, ideas and dreams of our youth. As a young woman navigating the waters of Sierra Leone, professional and personally, the fact that I’m 20 something sitting on some decision-making tables is often a hindrance than a positive. I am lucky to have a boss/mentors who choose to nurture and help channel my overt passion, enthuse and energy productively, who believes in my sometimes premature idealism as a young person without feeling threatened, and do not say ‘ good job’ now go seat in the corner like a little girl that you are, they often ask "how are you going to strategically influence policy, or make change or convince a people that this issue matters". The simple act of listening further fuels confidence in my own ability as a young Sierra Leone to positively influence change. This is what I find lacking generally in our country. Young people are  underutilized and ineffectively at that. Kelvin Doe would never have become the Kelvin Doe that everyone in Sierra Leone is so very proud off at age 16 if the recognition had not come externally and so I wonder, how many Kelvin Doe’s across the country are we diminishing or  not  recognizing?

I get it, we are African. Respecting and honoring our elders is IMPERATIVE and imbedded in the fabric of our cultural heritage and I would not have it any other way. Yet, in a country where over 50% of the population are below the age of 18, it is a waste and shame to a. not gestate the talents of young people b. relegate their talents to menial tasks and in turn to not properly mentor, shape, or provide space for us to grow and become the ‘change agents’ that this country so desperately needs. We must learn from our elders and guess what, our elders must learn from us to. What we know best is adaptability, technology, inter-connectivity these are imperative skills in our growing global economy. 

In summary, Kelvin Doe’s success remind me that:
1.     1. Take care of the present, do your best by being clear on your intention. Be present, open and authentic in anything you do in the NOW and God will take care of your future. Remember, God’s dream for you is bigger than any dream you can dream.
2.       2. Young people have a lot to offer to our community, to our institutions to the growth of our country. If the Agenda for Prosperity’s focus is focused on building the capacity and infrastructure of human beings, then these very human beings will naturally build a nation they want to see. Learning is a two Way Street, Sierra Leone must begin to learn from its youth in a viable way, and I’m not talking governmental youth policies/strategies that do not always reflect or are not encompassing of ideas, dreams, and innovation.

As Kelvin Doe continues to soar, my deep hope is that we find more Kelvin Doe’s in Sierra Leone, on the continent and in every corner, township, village, slum, cervix, school, street and nourish their gifts, ah the surprises that could be bestowed on us.

Happy 2014. Be Inspired.

Fambul dem, this is how we do...

7.05.2012

rearview mirror

....my very good friend from college sent me a quick message that made me smile. Shisha and wine on my balcony was one of our favourite past times. If we weren't lounging in my overly colorful studio apartment in Vancouver, you would find us sun bathing at the nearest beach in Kitsilano, with evenings at some hip bar downtown vancouver-if our wallets permitted of course. If not, then back to my apartment watching comedy re-runs and of course our favourite past time, talking. Indulging in the past, relishing in the present with faces alight, and dreaming about a future so uncertain it scared us to shits.

To my darling for sending me the reminder here is my response:
     you remain like a sister to me and although our young bright futures are still unfolding, the memories of knowledge sharing, shoulder to lean on borrowing, fights that challenged our humanities, and laughter that kept us inspired and aglow.....we are still quite bad ass.




fambul dem this is how we do..

7.03.2012

the powerful little girls on THE DAY OF THE AFRICAN CHILD

Regina Bash Taqi invites me to a fashion show that she organized for some very young talented and creative young ladies on Saturday, June 16th, the Day of the African Child. My cousin and i decided to go, nothing much to do anyway. The Girl Power themed fashion & talent show turned out to be a lovely way to spend the afternoon. We were entertained with 3 different themed catwalk shows, singing by Miss Sierra-Leone, a piano performance piece and some dancing. I was thrown back to my own very young diva days, back then i owned the world and no one could tell me any differently.  Although this post is coming a couple of weeks after the fact, i am continually inspired by the DAY OF THE AFRICAN CHILD, SOWETO UPRISING and years later it resonates through. The African Child, the African young boy, The African young girl....the African...filled with much content, context, meaning and movement. As aforementioned, the young african girl me was unstoppable, attitude filled, creative, free.....and those kids that day truly took me back memory lane. GIRL POWER, indeed.

fambul dem this is how we do...


1.19.2012

YO BLACKIE- YOU FREE?

My Co-TedxFreetown organizer and i sat to chat vision TEDxFREETOWN over a bottle of wine and the cool freetown evening breeze. Of course we swam across many seas, danced on mountain tops of dreams, played orchestra with the finest of instruments somewhere in Vienna, detoured to South Africa and ....you get the gist, before actually reaching the conversation about our up coming conference, we had many more things we wanted to talk about. The conversation came to a sad halt when we talked about freedom, and what that meant for young women, us, living here in freetown. What freedom meant in general for black women, for black men, for black communities living on this plain of existence, are we free? The question was haunting, dark and at the same time hopeful. TO CONTEXTUALIZE:
We asked one another why we continue to live in our home country, the CHOICE we make to stay here in Sierra-Leone, a land we love, a land that does not nourish nor cultivate our freedom most of the time. Why? Like my mother would flippantly respond, "Y has a long tail Fatou". What i have come to understand from that rhetoric now is, their are many reasons to the question why, one answer would not do it justice.

Why are we here ( decide to come to our home country).
 Ans: why (Y) has a long tail. an assortement of reasons would answer that question

Why do we stay?
  Ans: some say its a bug we catch, once we leave the country, we just want to come back because and despite it all. Others say, this is the only home/country they have, just like family you deal with the card God dealt you. Others, a profound love for the country, while for others, MONEY TO BE MADE/IS BEEN MADE/IS MADE. And for some of us, I included, i ride the hormonal tide of HOPE of the POSSIBLE, the infinite possibilities for creation and creativity.  It is possible, but the odds i promise are highly and finely stacked.

WHICH BRINGS ME TO...FREEDOM:
my cousin took the photography you see below. I like the shot, it finely capture's my emotion. I crave utter freedom to be all that i am every day, every where, any day any where. Totally Me: flighty, a hopeless romantic, a lover, sensitive, vulnerable, strong, manipulative, funny, weird....creative. EVERY DAY, EVERY WHERE. My country doesn't foster that in the here and now. To survive here, one must almost have to be: smart, careful, wary, family oriented, spiritual, un-trusting, and well fortified (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically). Oh and you must act, wear, love, eat and speak in a specific way...those bounds are confining within a  social-cultural structure, and i assure you, just doing you is a luxury most black people, especially women cannot always afford, anywhere in the world to be quite honest.


Photography: Rose Lamin
so i ask again...what is freedom and HOW are you enacting your freedom everyday? As a self identified woman/man/person of color-based on your geographical, soci-economic, religious, political make up---how does freedom flourish within your being?

fambul dem this is how we do....